Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Samuel Wightman Smythe with the following comment:
My wife and I host the Aldeburgh Past website at aldeburgh.oneplacestudy.org (but live 140 miles away) and we have produced a feature on Samuel Wightman Smyth. It would be good if we could include your photograph of his headstone. We would of course fully credit copyright to yourselves and include a link to your site.